Three thousand years ago, a wise man said, "Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it." Good training or instruction is not about solving crises; on the contrary, it is a process that should be carried out before facing them or having to discipline children. Most people assume parenthood by accident; they do not do so deliberately or in a planned manner. Imagine if a house were built that way!
We don't have to reinvent instruction. There are principles for instructing children, and methods that have worked since ancient times.
Denying a child formation or training is deliberately abandoning them and is akin to pushing them into a sea of options and passions, without a proper boat or compass.